Low sex drive looking to reconnect with my sexuality

Just a girl

I'm a woman in my mid-20s facing low sex drive, depression, anxiety, loneliness, and the feeling of having no friends or social life. I've struggled with mental health for years, making bad decisions, feeling socially awkward, and never fitting in or feeling like a "real" girl. If you understand what it's like to lose your libido due to depression, trauma, life stress, and family or friend struggles, we might relate. I'm seeking genuine emotional connection, deep conversation, and mutual understanding. I grieve my lost sex drive deeply. I believe in a healthy, fulfilling sex life rooted in trust and fun, but right now, intimacy has to happen at my pace. Respect for boundaries, patience, and emotional maturity are crucial. I'm unemployed, battling financial stress, joblessness (NEET), and low self-esteem. These struggles have only deepened my depression and low libido, making it harder to feel sexual or romantic, even though I crave human connection. Some major stressors are my family situation (mommy issues) and my best friend's BPD. Although her splitting behavior hurts, I recognize my own flaws too. Platonic relationships haven't always been easy for me. If you've experienced low libido from depression, lost friends, poverty, mental health struggles, or felt like the weird, lonely outsider, we might click. I welcome heartfelt conversations, mutual healing, and emotional bonding — whether it turns romantic, sexual, or stays platonic. For context: I used to be especially attracted to Asian men, particularly Vietnamese guys, but after my last relationship, I'm unsure if my type has changed or if I just need time to heal emotionally. If you value genuine connection over quick sex, understand mental health battles, and can offer patience, respect, and kindness, let's talk. Maybe together we can rebuild some hope, friendship, and laughter again.